Words

Words.... you use them all the time, you use them to do many thing, that is how I am typing right now, I am using words to tell you what I want to say. We use words so much sometimes we don't even think much about them. We just kinda say them.

Have you ever had someone come up to you and call you a dork, and has someone ever come up to you and said something that you will never forget what they said, cause it made you really mad, or it offend you in some way?

Sometimes we use words so much that we don't even think about what we are saying, and we just say things that we don't think will offend someone, but they do. Do you think about what you are going to say every time before you say it? Most people would say no, because we don't always think before we say something, and that is why we end up saying stuff that we shouldn't say to other people. Stuff that hurts them. Because, you don't know what is going on in their life, you don't know everything about their life, and their day or whatever. You don't know if something that you say will hurt them, but you think that is might, so, if that is the case, do you still say it?

We use words so much that sometimes we just say stuff because we want to, we don't think about the outcome of the words. Do you ever try and make someone laugh? Well, most people would say, yeah, I have made people laugh before, what is wrong with that? Nothing is wrong with making someone laugh, it is the way that you try and make them laugh. If you are trying to make someone else laugh by making fun of someone else, put yourself in their place, if you were the person you were making fun of, and then you heard what you said, how would you feel? Cause allot of times, we won't think about our jokes, and we will just say them, and then we will end up making someone else mad, or hurt them.

Words have a big part of our life, we use them allot, but we should use them to encourage people, not tear them down. We should say nice things about someone, like they look good, or qualities that you like about them. Because, that makes a person feel better, and it doesn't make them have a bad day or whatever. So, make sure to think before you talk, and don't say something that could offend someone, cause you never know, they might be standing right around you, you never know. And, if they are, you have hurt them, and you may say that it doesn't hurt that bad, but you don't know how their day is going, if they are having a bad day, that is one of the last things that they want to hear. It will only make it all worse. So, make sure that you aren't going to hurt someone by what you say. Make sure that your words are going to build someone up, and not tear them down. Just, before you say something, put yourself in their shoes for a little bit......

Proverbs 10:19

When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise.